Remember what it felt like as a child when you presented mom with a handful of dandelions or your latest macaroni art project and she made a fuss about how thoughtful it is was? She probably said something like “For me? How thoughtful!” Felt good, right?
Some people will tell you that they are generous because of all they give. I propose that we are not truly generous if we are not also good receivers. When we respond less to the gift and more to the thought and the giver, we give to them as well just by appreciating them. This holiday, and every day, consider how you can be a gracious receiver of others good thoughts and generosity. It is the best gift of all when someone lights up because you thought of them. Wear the sweater or don’t or exchange it for size or color. The important part is to thank the giver. It’s like putting the dandelions in a cup of water or hanging the painted macaroni art on the fridge.
If by chance, you’re not a good receiver of gifts, chances are there are other areas in which you limit your ability to receive. Compliments. Healing energy. Good news. If you’re feeling less than gracious this holiday season, understand there is a reason for it that may no longer be serving you. In fact, it can be hurtful to those you care about.
f this sounds familiar, schedule a 20 minute discovery call with me and let’s see how we might work together to overcome that barrier so you can receive more fully.
